Modes
Be open to exactly what you want
Turn on one mode or several. You only get intros for modes you have on, with people who have the same mode on.
All modes
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Dating
Meet someone for a date, from a coffee to something longer. Set who you’re interested in, ages and what you’re looking for.
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Friends
Meet new friends nearby. You can choose to meet only people of a certain gender, for example.
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Activity partner
Find someone to run, climb, play a board game or go to a concert with.
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Networking
Meet people in your field or someone to learn from, at a café or a co-working space.
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New in town
New to a city? Meet locals who are happy to show you around.
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Language exchange
Practise a language you’re learning with someone who speaks it, and help them with yours.
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Companionship
Non-sexual intimacy: cuddling, company and emotional support, with clear boundaries agreed ahead of time.
Selfie verification required
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Encounters
Casual meetups between consenting adults. Off by default and invisible to anyone who has not turned it on.
Selfie verification required
Companionship and Encounters
Both modes need selfie verification and a confirmed age of 18 or older, and every intro in them starts with a reminder about consent and boundaries. Companionship is non-sexual.
Encounters is never on by default. If you have not turned it on, you never see it in anyone’s profile and nobody can match you in it.
More on how we keep meetups safe: Safety
How modes work
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Each mode has its own settings
Who you’re open to, ages, distance, boundaries and dealbreakers are set per mode. They are hard rules: nobody outside them is suggested.
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Open now, for a while
When you go open, choose which of your modes count right now and for how long. When the time is up, you’re no longer open.
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With friends
Say you’re with friends and open to a group hello to be introduced pair to pair.
Ready for your next move?
Build your profile, choose your modes and say when you’re open. We’ll do the looking.