Safety

Built around your safety and privacy

Meeting in person should feel safe. These rules are built into NextMove itself, not left to settings you have to find.

Your location

  • Nothing before a mutual yes

    No one can see your location, distance, venue or even that you’re nearby until you both say yes. Intros never show a place or a distance.

  • Public venues only

    Your position only counts at public places on our list, such as cafés, bars, gyms, parks, libraries and campuses. Never at schools, clinics, hospitals, shelters, places of worship or homes.

  • Areas to avoid

    Mark your home and work. Within 300 metres of them, you’re never placed at a venue and never matched.

  • No location history

    We keep only your latest position, and delete it within 2 hours or as soon as you stop being open now.

  • Venue vibe, never who

    A venue’s vibe shows only how many people are open to each mode, and only when there are at least 3. Never who they are.

Intros and meeting

  • A no is silent

    A no and an intro that runs out of time look exactly the same to the other person.

  • Only what you choose

    An intro shows first name, age, photos, the mode and the reason line. You choose which other profile details are shown, and which stay private.

  • Sharing only between you two

    After a mutual yes, only the two of you see each other’s direction and distance range, for up to 30 minutes.

  • End it at any time

    Either person can end a find-each-other session instantly. Once it ends, no more positions are shared.

Safety tools

  • Trusted contacts

    Add people you trust. They hear from us only if you start a timer and don’t check in, or press the panic button.

  • Check-in timer

    Start a 30, 60 or 120 minute timer when you meet. If you don’t confirm you’re fine in time, we alert your trusted contacts with the venue name and an approximate location.

  • Panic button

    Alerts your trusted contacts right away, and shows a large button to call 911.

  • Block and report

    Block or report anyone from their profile, an intro or a chat. Blocked people are never matched with you or shown near you again.

  • Hide from people you know

    Choose phone numbers you don’t want to be matched with, such as an ex or a coworker.

  • After-meeting check-in

    Tell us privately how it went, including if you felt unsafe. The other person never sees your answer.

Trust and moderation

  • Adults only

    NextMove is for people 18 and older. Your birth date is required when you sign up, and accounts under 18 are blocked and deleted.

  • Selfie verification

    Take a selfie in the app and a member of our team compares it with your profile photos. Verified people get a badge.

  • Moderation

    Photos, profile text and messages are checked automatically for harmful content, and our team reviews reports and flagged content.

  • Consent reminders

    Companionship and Encounters require selfie verification and show a consent and boundaries reminder before every intro.

  • Chat only after a yes

    Nobody can message you unless you both said yes. Before a harmful message is sent, the writer is asked if they are sure.

  • Unmatch removes everything

    Unmatching deletes the connection, the chat and shared photos for both people.

Read the rules everyone agrees to, and the details of what we collect: Community guidelines · Privacy Policy

Ready for your next move?

Build your profile, choose your modes and say when you’re open. We’ll do the looking.